Today we’re answering all the big questions about Engagement Parties. What are they? How to plan one? Do you even need one? We’ve got the answers!
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What is an Engagement Party?
An engagement party is a party thrown to celebrate the engagement of a couple. The party is typically held in the month after the engagement. This party can be as large or as small as the couple is into, just as long as the person who’s paying is on board.
Do we need to have one?
Short answer, no! You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to. But, it’s a fun way for the couples’ family and friends to get together and celebrate their love. Bonus, you may start to get all the pesky wedding questions, but no one will really expect to have all the answers yet.
Photo | Reigh Walker
Where do we have it?
Engagement parties can be held wherever you’d like! We predominantly see them held in private restaurant spaces or family homes, but if you’ve got the budget do it up your way!
Who’s invited?
You can keep it small with just your immediate families, or you can size up and invite close friends and extended family members. Just be sure to invite only people that you would want at your actual wedding because those guests should carry over.
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Quick Questions? Quick Answers!
Should we already be registered? Probably, some guests (namely nana and pawpaw) may already be chomping at the bit to get you a gift, so get that done asap!
What do we do at the party? Party! Eat, drink, show off that rock, whatever you want, it’s up to the couple. One thing that can’t be forgotten, though, is to thank your guests for their love and support!
Do we need to decorate? We would recommend yes, but you don’t need to go overboard. Some streamers, balloons, or fun photo backdrop will suffice!
Do we send out formal invites? You decide! Wedding code isn’t as strict on this one, just as long as you do it 3-4 weeks beforehand.
What should we wear? For many brides, the Engagement Party is the first pre-wedding event where they begin their all white everything outfit run so that’s an option. If you’re not into that, an outfit you’d wear to a nice restaurant will do too!